Young Fathers
It might be that you weren't trying for a baby and that the news has come as a shock. You might be really pleased, or really scared, or upset, or a real mixture of feelings and this is all perfectly normal. Chances are that most of the focus is on the expectant mum during pregancy, however, it's a really good idea for you to get involved as much as you can not only to offer support but also to feel a part of the baby's life as early as possible.
Pregnancy can be an exhausting business. Now's the time to help and give your partner time to rest. If you can, show your partner affection and love - it will be a great boost - she may be feeling very emotional and vulnerable.
It's a good idea to discuss with your partner what your involvement in the will be early, e.g. Will you attend ante-natal classes? Will you be present at the birth? What will the baby's surname be? If you and the baby's mum aren't living together what arrangements are you going to make about seeing/financially supporting the baby? Making these arrangements early will help avoid stress and difficulties once the baby is born.
